1/30/2010
Why is it that no one listens though they know you are right? Is it because you or I am the ones saying to them this is wrong or this is right? Do people get a complex when faced with the fact that maybe someone else outside the box and situation understands it a little clearer?
This all started a few days ago. My mom’s current husband was picked up by the police for non-payment of back child support (old payment he missed). Come to find out the money was taken from their taxes, but he was still picked up. Upon arresting him he is busted with a minimal amount of pot and a pipe on him. So, the guy is an idiot. My mom tells me the situation and how “DONE, SHE IS WITH HIM AND HE IS NEVER COMING BACK INTO HER LIFE”. Well, though I rarely believe here in situations like these, I begin to agree that this should be the last straw and he should.
On the 29th of this month (January) my mom is heading to the local WAL:-MART to help my little brother and his girlfriend get some groceries, when they get a phone call. “YOUR HOUSE IS ON FIRE”, they rush home to see her house in flames. The only conclusion they had was that one of the animals knocked over the electric space heater and started it. She lost everything, one of her cats and her dog. Things looked pretty grim. Not forgetting here as I forgot to add that her so-called husband has been not paying the mortgage for 3 months after she gave him the money to do so, his mom bails him out and he is now sitting with her, together, like always. I knew it. I knew she wouldn’t last. I figured more than a day though. I thought he’d be in there for atleast a bit longer.\
Anyway, she tells me that he is out so he can help her!!! Help her? Like he did paying the house payment? Or how he helped by sneaking out and smoking pot and getting drunk constantly? He is a selfish bastard who has used her from the start. She never listensto me on things with him. She says she loves him, and I get these ridiculous speeches about how you can’t choose who you fall in love with. BULL SHIT! Ok granted I know your heart will do as it pleases, but at some point you need to wake up and realize that you are co-dependant, have never lived alone and it kills you thinking about it. I know this because in some ways it has rubbed off on me. He could have beat her retarded nd she would still be there holding his hand saying: ”he didn’t mean it”. I have tried so hard in my life better myself. To set my self goals and meet them. All I want is to be proud of where I come from. But all that happens time and time again is nothing but disgrace. I love her with all my heart, but ties are soon to be cut.
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